dear querer,

we understand that you have this question.

we understand that you may be asking it in good faith, because you genuinely wish to understand, we really really do.

that said, these questions have been answered, many times, many ways.

and sometimes when they are answered, those asking get upset by the answer. they do not like it. it makes them uncomfortable.

sometimes they react poorly.

sometimes they feel entitled to an explanation only and exclusively from the specific group of people they are asking.

their labor is not owed but despite that it has certainly been done, over and over again.

the information you seek exists.

those truly wishing to understand, to learn and do better, will understand this gentle rebuttal and seek it out on their own.

TL;DR google it.

general

what are you?

what is a microaggression?